It has been observed that if the father is present during childbirth, the latter will be more involved in the activities of the newborn.
A gentle beastBecause, in general, fathers who want to play a bigger role in the parenting room, or because a father who is involved in the care of a child right from the beginning, needs to play a role playing with him, the child will also consider him to be a regular carer. The father is also good at sensing if he feels that he is able to reassure the baby if he senses that the child is indeed his father and he is his father. In the beginning, the mother has a much greater responsibility for the Newborn, and it is in the initial period that the father has the task of supporting and caring for the mother. After all, you have to recharge somewhere emotionally. When you return home from work, do not expect to be served, but try to get involved, and it is very important for a young child to experience not only a mother who cares for her, and an almost sympathetic relationship with her. If a mother is raising a child alone, the little one can form a picture of a mother who is all-powerful and is fully served in every situation. When the father is intensely present in the child's life, he experiences another relationship between his mother and his father, where the mother is not all-powerful. This sensation reduces anxiety and serves as a model for peer-to-peer relationships.
A father's authority counted on a child only if the mother counted on the word of a man who was his partner. Even if he is not a biological father and even if he is not always present.
Every time we hear from the mother, "What will Dad give when he comes home!" Or, "Oh, but daddy will be mad about it!" The real reaction may not be, but the baby in the head starts to be important to the father, because the mother said once every day that it was important.
In children between the ages of two and a half, it is common for mothers to have harder skin and to father more easily than mothers. At this point, the father tends to overlook this situation and blame the mother for not having made the decision with the child and for raising her poorly.
Yeah, you know, it's just that it's too painful to accept a mother's prohibition, discipline. Just think, in the past, the child had an almost symbiotic relationship with him, receiving all the good, breast milk, all-day attention, and so on, even from the beginning, from the Apostle.
In such cases, this misunderstanding can lead to a dispute between parents and a sense of competition over who is raising the child better. It is often said why the child listens to me and does not. Or the mother of indulgence. This is not what you are talking about, just your relationship with the child's two parents, just how you relate to them. The "bigger number" of a kid is the parent who is a long way from being seen all day. That's why, if your father comes home and deals with him, he'll welcome you so much. He wants to be good because he thinks the father will be more with him. So it is only natural for a child to react to his father's discipline as a mother, since they are in another relationship.
Without the presence of a true father who corrects this idealized pattern on the ground of the country, the child begins to identify with this perfect daddy. Of course, this is impossible and will result in a lot of failure and disappointment.
If there is a daddy - grandfather, uncle, stepfather, teacher, etc. - in the family or in a narrower environment. - then the child will have the opportunity to bring this pattern closer to reality and to follow a more realistic, patterned identity. It includes good and bad qualities, mistakes, and dispels the idealized, cosmetic image that could only develop on the ground of fantasy, movies, tales.
The role of gender
If a child sees that his parents have mutual respect for each other, he or she will consider it natural and develop his or her own adult relationships.
Between the ages of three and three, you have a "big love" for the opposite sex parent. It is very important that we do not punish this "love" with words or deeds, nor do we suppress their first impressions. It is important for little children how his father deals with it as a child and how he relates to his womanhood.
If the baby feels that his father is proud, appreciated, witty, and so forth, he will be concerned about his relationship with the female and the other.
If the father writes down, weak, disoriented, or laughs at her girl's initial rhetoric in female roles (e.g., Don't Monkey Too Much!), The little girl becomes more insecure and desperate to be killed. He begins to identify with masculine qualities, hoping that his father will be admired.
At a young age, it is important to see how the great and wonderful father receives the ambitions that come when he wants to be like his father. If the father sees the son as a small trunks, he may develop an unhealthy rivalry where the child can only lose.
They are in lovePhysical intimacy, coziness, and touch are important for a father and his children. Above all, it means safety and love for the child when the home can come. Sometimes the behavior of the child may seem sexualized in the eyes of the parent, and some who are frightened of it may try to delay the child's intimacy. You have to know that the child is in need of physical contact, love, and it has to be given!
One should not overlook, try to interpret, or discourage these manifestations, as this will prevent the child's sexuality and love life from developing normally.